featured :: every last detail :: high point wedding photographer

A few months ago, I had the honor of helping my industry colleague Kerri create and launch her new brand, Kerri Leigh Weddings + Events. In the midst of creating a business that was a true reflection of her, we came up with the idea to plan an inspiration shoot.

We had a fabulous team of vendors come together to create something awesome, and today, I am thrilled to have that shoot featured on Every Last Detail. Check out the feature here!

So many wonderful shop owners from Etsy contributed to this project and many of them were kind enough to donate their items to be used in one grand giveaway worth more than $500. Enter below for a chance to win one of 10 awesome prizes... you have two weeks to enter and share with your friends, and winners will be announced June 13, 2014.

Be sure to leave a blog post comment with the top 3 items you'd like to win from the slideshow below in order for your entry to be counted!

a Rafflecopter giveaway

If you live in or are getting married in North Carolina, be sure to check out part two of our giveaway, and enter to win more than $800 in prizes from our local contributors!

Many thanks to everyone who came together to make this inspiration shoot a great success:

Planning+Styling :: Kerri Leigh Weddings + Events
Photographer :: Glessner Photography
Venue :: String & Splinter Club
Hair+Makeup :: Updo's Studio
Cake Artist :: Cake & All Things Yummy
Truffles :: Haute Chocolate
Rentals :: Grand Rental Station
Calligrapher :: Calligraphy by Carole
Stationery :: Ashley Elise Designs
Models :: Rebecca Kearns, Sarah Moore, Sara McDuffie
Dresses :: Bellissima of Salisbury
Videographer :: Iron Kite Films
Flowers :: Just Priceless
Table Number :: The Garrett Group
Confetti Toss Packets :: Green Belt Farm
Cake Topper :: Emily Steffen
Guest Print :: Flutterbye Prints
Headband :: Eleven Skies Studio
Gold Ruffle Stand :: Gray December
Champagne Labels and Print :: Sweet Sanity Designs
Garter Set :: Nestina Accessories
Sequin Linens :: Arcadia Wedding Design
Glass Tags :: Seventh and J
Sequin Hanger :: Oh Deer Creative
Heart Ring :: Gigglosophy
Birdcage Veil :: Woomee Bridal Adornments

Also, a very special thank you to Kamisha Hodges and Alycee Byrd for assisting me with setting up, carrying items up and down stairs, and whatever was asked of them :) xoxo

5 things i've learned in 5 years of marriage :: greensboro wedding photographer

Today, Josh and I celebrate another year of being married. By no means have we got it all figured out - marriage is definitely one crazy roller coaster ride - but I'm glad to say that, so far, it only gets better with each passing year. Josh is my best friend, makes me laugh every single day, lets me be me, and loves me at my best and my worst. Obviously, I think he's pretty great ;)

An Instagram shot from our anniversary trip to San Francisco last week. Watch out for a photo recap coming soon!

After 9 years together and 5 years as hubby and wife behind us (where did the time go???), these are a few of my words of wisdom for the soon-to-be-weds and newlyweds out there:

1. Be on the same team. Marriage is the two of you against the world. Of course you aren't always going to agree on everything, but try to fight only the battles that really matter. People and circumstances will try to pull you apart. Stand up for your partner and speak kindly of them - at the end of the day, you've only got each other.

2. Figure out finances early. Very early on in our relationship, it became clear that Josh and I had two very different financial philosophies - he's a spender (honestly, we should own stock in Apple) and I'm a saver (all those years of my dad yelling at me to turn lights off when I leave a room finally sunk in). In the early years, this resulted in what felt like endless arguments. A couple of years ago, I started following Dave Ramsey, and Josh and I got on the same page with where we'd like to be financially. We're still a work in progress, but being a team when it comes to money has taken a huge burden off of us.

3. It's okay to go to bed angry. Whoever said you should never go to bed angry, in my humble opinion, was just wrong. Sometimes, you just need to shut up and get a good night's sleep (or if you're like me, eat a sandwich... I get grumpy if I'm tired or hungry). Don't pick fights just because you're tired. You'll be thinking more clearly after a few zzz's and your morning coffee and might avoid a senseless argument.

4. But don't bottle it up. On the flip side, it's not good to suppress your emotions all the time either. I know, I know... people say it all. the. time, but it's only because it's true: communication is key. Bottling up your feelings over a prolonged period of time will only result in resentment or an explosive argument or both in the long run (speaking from experience). Just try to communicate calmly and effectively, and think about your words before speaking them. 

5. Change isn't always a bad thing. In our first couple of years of marriage, I had a bad habit of comparing our current relationship to the way things were when we were dating... when we'd write letters or emails to each other once a week because we lived 600 miles apart or when we'd surprise each others with little gifts or we'd spend hours talking on the phone without a single lapse in conversation. It was all new and exciting and not filled with mortgages and careers and chores, but I've finally realized that change can be good. The truth is, I kinda love the comfort and easiness that being together for so long brings. Now, instead of learning about each other's childhoods and past adventures by telling one another the stories, we're just creating our own stories. I look forward to 100 more years of change and new adventures together!

Read more anniversary recaps here:
Four Years Married
Three Years Married
Six Years Dating

new camera + new adventures :: chicago photographer

This past weekend, our friends got married in Chicago, and *gasp* we actually got to attend a wedding without working for the first time in over 3 years... what a treat! On Friday, we had the chance to do some quick sightseeing, and I was super excited to try out my new Fuji X100. Typically, we end up only using our iPhones for photos on trips because our wedding gear is just so darned heavy and bulky. I'm still learning all the ins and outs of it - each camera has its own quirks, but so far, I'm in love. Here are a few of the photos from our afternoon with friends at Millennium Park and the Willis Tower ...

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